Relationship Advice

Be careful of who you receive relationship advice from many people want to give free advice however most of them are not qualified to do so.
Relationship advice should not come from your friends either friends mean well when they give advice. Friends do often have your best interests in heart or mind; however, this is not always the best advice for the relationship.
Relationship advice can only come from a professional or someone who has had training or experience in dealing with relationships in the past. These types of people are certified counselors, or marriage counselors that deal with relationship issues on a daily basis. These counselors have gone to school to learn about human behavior and relationships. Much of the time, this kind of counselor is not free however; there are agencies available to help with free counseling or advice for couples who may not be able to afford counseling.
Another good qualified person to give advice on relationships is a minister or a clergyman this type of counselor or marriage advisor can give the couples advice from the religious aspect of the relationship. A minister or clergyman will advise couples in the ways proper to the eyes or their God. What is healthy and what is not healthy on or out of relationships. Ministers can also advise couples who want to enter into a relationship for the first time, or those in relationships that are experiencing difficulties. Most often, the minister of the couple’s local church is the person who is called when an issue arises.
Please keep in mine that anything you discuss with either a professional counselor or ministers kept in the greatest of confidence. This means that what you say to them about your personal life and any difficulties you may have remains secrete and is not shared with any other person unless it is a collogue. If they were to discuss any details of your session’s with others they could loose their license and no longer counsel others.
It might be safe to receive advice from experts on relationships and or marriage from a couple who have been together for a long time. Many couples have managed to remain together through several difficult times and issues life has thrown at them. Therefore, it would be safe to ask them about certain issues this is if you know the couple well and may speak freely to them. It’s not recommended to just walk up to an older couple and begin talking about things out of the air this would be considered rude and inappropriate. This could also be embarrassing to you as well as to the couple being, approached.
If however you do know of some friends of the families you have know for quite some time go and sit and visit with them they would love to talk and share their secrets on how they have been together for a long period of time. Most likely they will tell you some of the major factors involve a strong spiritual bond with their God, unconditional love, sacrifice, the ability to listen, the ability to keep moving forward no matter what happens, and always communicate with each other about everything. This is good advice for anyone in any relationship.